How to Revive a Friendship

One of the most important relationships a person could ever have in life, are the ones we have with friends. It’s a human thing, we need friends! Some of us try to be strong without them, but your quality of life is never better than when you’re spending time with those who care about you.ย As we know, life happens, we get busy and that’s OK. But what is not OK is to let your friendships slip away in the process.

What to do when you feel your friendship is ending…

1. Decide how important this particular friendship is to you. Let’s be real here, some friendships don’t necessarily need to continue. You may find yourself may in a poisonous relationship and it could be for the best if you just let it go.

2. Pinpoint the root of the problem. Although we may never want to point fingers, it is important to figure out who’s fault it is that the friendship is going south. In many cases it could be one of your own doings.

3. Confront the problem; confront your friend. Be the bigger man, and make it easy on them by expressing the distance you’re feeling, chances are they’re feeling the same way. This is usually the most awkward part because this problem could actually just be a figment of your imagination, and if it so happens to be, this could be a pretty AWKWARD situation. If this is your friend, AWKWARDย or not, they will understand your concern for the relationship and respect that you were even concerned in the first place.

4. Rekindle the friendship! Make a conscious effort to clear your schedule to make time for your friend. Schedules clashing can be the death of even the best of friendships. Have coffee, go see a movie, grab a burger, and show your friend how much they mean to you.

**. If you continuously find yourself in this position. It still may be time to let this friendship go. Sometimes to avoid confrontation people don’t always say how they feel. It is important to be intuitive in these situations, because no matter how hard you try, if a person doesn’t want to be friends with you anymore, it will become more and more obvious. Don’t force it.
Above all, it is important to VALUE YOURSELF, and to value the lives of others. You are too good to chase anyone and you shouldn’t have to.

Have fun rekindling!

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